Chantel Brink

Chantel Brink

May 15, 2024

Woman Defends Partner After He Is Accused Of Being Her “Feeder”

In the realm of romantic relationships, it is unfortunately common for individuals to face judgment based on their physical appearance. This holds especially true for a plus-sized woman who has been subjected to particularly harsh scrutiny. Detractors have accused her boyfriend of being a “feeder,” a term used to describe someone who urges their partner to overeat for their own sexual pleasure.

Maria defends their relationship as her partner is accused of being a feeder
Image Credit: @maria_sxh / Instagram

However, this resilient woman refuses to let others silence her. She has taken a stand to defend her relationship, steadfastly asserting that her boyfriend is not a feeder. The love story of Maria and Alin defies societal norms and celebrates the inherent beauty found in embracing differences.

Accused of being a feeder, Alin stands aside Maria, claiming their love is real

As a couple in what is commonly referred to as a “mixed-weight relationship,” they have encountered ridicule and negativity from certain individuals. Nevertheless, this has never hindered their ability to cherish their extraordinary bond.

Although Alin openly acknowledges his preference for larger women, he admits that he had never been in a “weight gap” relationship before his connection with Maria. He shared, “Prior to Maria, I had never experienced a committed relationship with a plus-size woman. I can confidently say that I do have a preference for plus-size women. However, I also faced societal stigma and judgment because of it.

Alin’s perspective significantly shifted when he and Maria embarked on their relationship. He explained, “Once we became a couple, my mindset changed. I distanced myself from toxic individuals and unhealthy relationships. I vividly recall a close friend questioning my decision, asking how I could be with her.”

We often face judgment and incredulity from strangers as we walk down the street. People can’t fathom that someone like me would be in a relationship with her,” Alin added, highlighting the external scrutiny they encounter. Despite these challenges, Alin’s love for Maria remains unwavering, transcending societal expectations and demonstrating the depth of their connection.

Maria and Alin claim to be the real deal
Image Credit: @maria_sxh / Instagram

Their journey commenced on TikTok, a platform where their paths serendipitously crossed through their respective videos. Instantly captivated by one another’s personalities, they forged a deep connection that would shape the course of their remarkable story.

Their virtual connection swiftly transformed into a vibrant real-life romance, solidifying a bond that has made them inseparable. Despite the relentless criticism they face, Maria and Alin stand unwaveringly in their love, unapologetic and deeply committed to each other.

Regrettably, their journey has been marred by significant online trolling. A product of the narrow-minded assumptions that some people hold about relationships that defy societal norms.

Maria candidly expressed her experiences, stating: “I have encountered numerous individuals who believe that my worthiness to exist is contingent upon my weight alone. However, I have never struggled to find love or companionship. I believe it is because I embraced self-confidence from a young age.”

Maria’s resilience and self-assurance have played a crucial role in shaping her outlook on life and love. She refuses to allow societal prejudices to define her worth or the authenticity of her relationship with Alin. Fighting back at anyone who dares accuse her partner of being a feeder.

Continuing her account, Maria then shared: “I receive hateful direct messages from individuals who go as far as wishing for my demise, questioning why someone like me, who is fat, deserves to live. However, I have reached a point where I no longer allow these hurtful comments to affect me. I recognize that these people are merely faceless trolls hiding behind screens, completely ignorant of who we truly are.”

Maria’s resilience shines through as she refuses to grant power to the hurtful words of anonymous individuals. She has developed a firm understanding that the opinions of these online detractors hold no weight, as they lack any genuine knowledge or connection with her and Alin.

Read: ‘I’m in love but haters say my husband must be gay or have a fat fetish’

Sources

  1. Instagram. @maria_sxh.
  2. Woman defends relationship and insists boyfriend is not her feeder.” Tyla. Ben Thompson. April 12, 2023