Monogamous relationships are the norm in many cultures around the world. In general, polygamy has been discouraged, and we’ve been told one partner is all we should have. Now, that idea is being challenged. There is a growing number of people who call themselves polygamists. Our story today is of a Brazilian man who has nine wives. In order to meet all of their sexual needs, he has created a “sex rota”. This sounds like a dream situation for many people, but reportedly he is experiencing problems in the marital bed.
Polygamy is illegal in Brazil
Arthur O Urso is a Brazilian man who is ‘married’ to nine women. His first wife is named Luana Kazaki. Since marrying her, the couple has been joined by eight other women in their union. Their intention is to marry as a protest against monogamy, and to exercise their right to “celebrate free love.” However, technically Arthur is not married to the 8 other women as polygamy is illegal in Brazil.
Some wives Felt left Out
Unfortunately, human beings will always be ruled by our emotions, and try as he might, Arthur was struggling to please each of his wives, sexually that is.
One of his wives, called Agatha, was clearly not satisfied because she decided to divorce the group. It seems that the divorce was for the marriage, but also the sexual activities.
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He made a ‘sex rota’ or schedule for his wives
In order to prevent losing another wife from his large group, he made a schedule so that each of his remaining wives would get a fair amount of love. Unfortunately for him, this was less of a success than he hoped.
Arthur found that the schedule made the love he had to give feel too strict as if he were attending a school that had a class schedule. This made it difficult to express his love, and he has admitted to thinking of his other wives, while he is with another.
In an interview, Arthur said: “They all want to fulfill my sexuality at any cost, they are happy to make it their goal. Our sex life is really fun and pleasurable, and initially, I tried to have sex by appointment. But following a timetable caused a lot of problems and sometimes I felt like I had to have sex because of the schedule, and not for pleasure. On other occasions, I had sex with one wife while thinking about another.”